How do girls become so insecure? Do you see irony when you take this post apart?

As a female I can see a point in your question/statement but it is not present for no reason. Narcissism is common with over half the population in the world. Not all women have dysfunctional coping skills. There is a pressure put on women that isn't as common in men. In fact there is clear evidence that men are more attracted to women for beauty and vanity issues. Women are more likely to respond to emotions and look past some appearances. Although this is not to blame for everyone. There is a pressure but if a women can go beyond that I think that that shows a more advanced way of looking at something. For instance if a person can focus more on personal acceptance based upon there own goals then that is better but not everyone male or female can do this. Everyone cares to an extent what the world thinks about them, that's a fact. If you say you don't that's bulls**t. Women who's mothers push diets and female inferior-ism are somewhat to blame. You claim to be a narcissistic and maybe you are but claiming that that is simply who you are them why do you respond to the way's society is flawed. I don't feel that you believe this as much as the next person because you cared enough about coming off as a narcissist. You take pleasure in that claim and position you put yourself in. And frankly you prove that you to care. I think that you do have a point. I can't claim that women don't act in this way. Look at society I can't claim that I don't see it. I also can't claim that I don't respond to it in my own way. I can't even claim that I don't care what others think. But I can claim that men and women both do this.